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The Viper

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So, I'm gonna make this short and sweet and try to get to the point as quick as possible.

I had a buddy that I've known since 2004. Met in band class and we instantly clicked. I brought my Wrestlemania XX DVD to school to lend it to another one of my friends and I found out he was a wrestling fan as well, so we just became best buds from the get-go. We had a great friendship since then, but until around the beginning of this year, we started to not talk as much. I understand life moves on. That's fine but from what I've been told by some of our mutual friends, he wasn't doing anything different than what he was doing before then. He just stopped talking to me. I know this sounds really stupid and childish but it hurts a bit because I never did anything wrong. We just stopped conversing for some reason.

Then we started talking again a few months ago and everything was awesome. Found out he moved even closer to my house so we'd be able to hang out more often like the good ol' days. That was the last time we talked. Then I found him on Twitter after seeing that he closed his FB. So I was pretty happy. Tried tweeting him one time saying "what's up bro?". All that crap. Then he blocks me. I'd understand if it was for a reason but it's like he's really avoiding talking to me and just ending this friendship. When I saw that he blocked me for an unknown reason, it hurt. Got a bit upset, TBH. We've been best buds for 8 years. Then he just stops keeping in contact with me.

So, after all of that (that was much more than I wanted to type out), have you ever lost a best friend because of a non-existent reason? Have you ever felt like it was your fault or have you just said "fuck it" and moved on with your life? I don't know what I'm gonna do yet because that's the first time that's ever happened to me so it really sucks.
 
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to be honest Vipes this is life I have had hundreds of close friends fall in and out of my life it's a sad but true part of life
 

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to be honest Vipes this is life I have had hundreds of close friends fall in and out of my life it's a sad but true part of life

Very true and as good ol' Vinnie Mac once said, "life sucks....and then you die".
 

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My best friend stopped watching wrestling and became an asshole to. It was the usual "I'm too old to watch wrestling and you should stop watching to". I was like "no fuck you, I've loved wrestling forever and I'm not going to stop watching it. Just because your getting older doesn't mean you have to become old". Then he just started getting really mean to me and we just have nothing in common anymore. We used to text about wrestling literally every day but now we're dead to each other.


I got over it though, I have a new group of friends that I hang with everyday so it's all good.



And by the way Viper, if he lives close to you why can't you jut go see him?
 

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As Booty says, It's just something that happens really. Friends will always grow apart.

I'm sure you have plenty of other friends to talk to though.
 

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And by the way Viper, if he lives close to you why can't you jut go see him?

Trust me, I would if I actually knew where he lived. I've never been to his new house so I have no clue where he is. I'm not gonna search the entire city of Las Vegas just to find a former friend of mine and talk to him about why he's such a cunt.

I'm sure you have plenty of other friends to talk to though.

Wow. No shit, I do. That's not what I'm worried about.

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Rack you brain Viper. Is there anything you can think of anything at all that you might have done?



Trust me, I would if I actually knew where he lived. I've never been to his new house so I have no clue where he is. I'm not gonna search the entire city of Las Vegas just to find a former friend of mine and talk to him about why he's such a cunt.





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Do you know his last name? Just look on whitepages
 

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Rack you brain Viper. Is there anything you can think of anything at all that you might have done?





Do you know his last name? Just look on whitepages

I'm really not sure. The last time we ever spoke, we had a great conversation and we were talking about how we should hang out more often because he apparently moved a little closer to me. That's it. We got into many fights during our friendship so this time, I was really trying to just keep my mouth shut so we don't get into any more heated arguments and we never had any for a long time, so I really can't think of anything that I could have done to have him stop talking to me.

I do know his last name. I would but he lives by himself and last I remember, he doesn't have a house phone anymore because he doesn't really need it so I wouldn't find him in there. If he never deactivated his FB account, I'd send him a PM and try talking to him.
 

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I'm really not sure. The last time we ever spoke, we had a great conversation and we were talking about how we should hang out more often because he apparently moved a little closer to me. That's it. /QUOTE]

Right, ditch this guy.

I've had this shit from a mate recently, and I honestly don't like him enough to put up with these empty promises so I'm done with him. It's poor character to say stuff like that and not keep your word.
 

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Personally its a way of life. In time the pain will subside so don't waste energy on a friend that
Never was ya know?
 

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My best friend stopped watching wrestling and became an asshole to. It was the usual "I'm too old to watch wrestling and you should stop watching to". I was like "no fuck you, I've loved wrestling forever and I'm not going to stop watching it. Just because your getting older doesn't mean you have to become old". Then he just started getting really mean to me and we just have nothing in common anymore. We used to text about wrestling literally every day but now we're dead to each other.


I got over it though, I have a new group of friends that I hang with everyday so it's all good.



And by the way Viper, if he lives close to you why can't you jut go see him?
So in translation you have no more friends.
 

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Hey Viper, that really sucks about your relationship with your friend. I've also been really close to people and for some unknown reason, at the time, they will fall off the face of the planet or tell me the can't be friends with me any more.

This has happened with more of my female friends, than with my male friends though. I've had several tell me they can't be friends with me because of a new boyfriend. However, after their relationships end, they try to be my friend again. When I was younger I would tell them to go fuck themselves for trying to be a friend again after throwing away friendship for someone they had only know for a short period of time. Now that I'm older I usually ignore them or politely tell them not to contact me again. Actually, this has happened with a few of my guy friends to know that I think about it... Hell, maybe its something wrong with me...
 
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Yea you scare the pussy away. XD lol